Problems may occur from time to time, but no one should really be bothered because every problem has it’s own solution. Every problem is just a test of how strong our wills are and how firm our feet on the ground. There are different types of “challenges” in our lives. It may be a problem in school, family, financial, self and the most common of all, problem of the heart.
In this blog entry I’m going to focus with the heart problem because I think everyone could relate with it.
There are different types of situation related with this topic:
1. One-Sided-Love
This is the type of love that between two people, one feels absolutely nothing and the other is the complete opposite. This situation may be a bit sad, but realizing the brighter side of life, maybe that person is not meant to be with you. Maybe that person is not worth your strength, time and power. Maybe the person who is right for you will go your way unexpectedly. Maybe this is just not your time, just wait and never look . At the end you will see that it is worth every second of your life.
2. The-Mutual-But-Impossible-Love
In this situation love is in the air but with a twist! Two people are mutually in love but there is a big hindrance between them. It may be the family, time, or another party. With this, all I ever think of is just go with the flow. It may be possible that you love her/him because you cannot get her/him. You just see something special with him/her that you cannot see with other people. Also, it may be impossible because, we’re afraid of risking something for someone we are not sure of having. But as we all know, If you really love someone nothing should ever stop you from getting that person.
3. The-Ex-Versus-Present-Love
Is it really possible to love two people at once? Maybe yes, because we all love our family and friends at the same time. Maybe no, because it is way too different comparing to the love for someone special. This situation makes us realize that chances should not be given to the one who deserves you but rather to the one who you think deserves it. It is a battle between the past and the present. Thinking wisely the chance should be given to the person who haven’t hurt you yet. Doing this, you’re going to risk the past for being just in the past. But, what if what you’ve lost before is the one you’ve always wanted to have again. My advice? just think it through, no one could ever judge you, no one could ever say that you’re a bad person and honestly, never ask someone who you should go to because nobody could ever know what is inside that heart. Always use both your head and heart, never use the heart without the head and vice versa.
4. The-Failed-Love
This love maybe the end of one love but definitely it is the start of something new. This maybe painful at the beginning but time can heal all wounds. Also it’s our chance of proving how strong we are of facing life ahead of us. Some may say that happiness should be brought with someone who has your heart and that someone is the same person who broke your heart. Based on my experience, everything in life is meant to happen. Besides, life’s too beautiful to dwell on the negative side. So stay positive, be happy. Know when to hold on but definitely learn when to let go.
5. The-Stung-By-Cupid-Love
This is the love we’ve all been waiting for. In this situation you see butterflies, and candies everywhere. Everything is sweet and pink! Everything is right, everything is perfect. The feeling of not believing in forever but meeting that one person you have no choice but to believe in it. When you have this make sure that don’t ever let go. Fate do exist but doesn’t do everything. Do your part, make your someone your fate.
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